Sunday, May 24, 2009

How to Give an Erotic, Sexy and Sensual Massage to Have Her Begging For Sex

How about some easy suggestions for you to give an erotic massage that is very sensual and sexy.

The best advice I like to give guys to do an erotic massage is to have a very slow and relaxed touch. Most guys tend to touch a woman a bit too rough and are too insensitive and this is a real turn off.

Most ladies like a gentle touch to start an erotic massage. Can you just start to touch the fine hairs of her skin? Many guys also like to receive a light touch and discover it can be very sexy.

One can start an erotic massage with silk. I also like to use some fur to touch my lovers body. It's a good idea to do a flowing lower back massage and buttocks, as most men and women hold a degree of tightness in this area.

I often use soft tapping on the sacrum area and that can be very sexy. Teasing is a great way to start to raise the sexual area. A soft touch on a hot zone and then your go away for a minute or so.

Do some lengthy stokes up the inner legs and over the genital area and up to the head. A sensual gliding over the anal area can be hot for most guys.

Make sure you should use a plenty of oil on all the body and genital area during the sensual massage.

Use a sensual touch on the genitals and play other areas and tease and return for more fun with teasing. Try blowing up the body, over the genital region and up to the breasts. Do not bow into the vulva.

I suggest to try opening the bottom and blowing. Try licking or sucking on the toes. This can be very sexy. I have had a woman orgasm from just this.

Ask your man or woman to breathe deeper than usual. This can be good for increasing the energy and intensifying the turn on.

Now your lady is wanting some more sexy massage.

I cover exact strokes on both the vulva and penis.

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Erotic Massage - Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life

One needn't be an expert in giving massages to experience the pleasure of innovating on some basic techniques to elicit the same pleasure in their partner and erotic massages are more than simply learning the right hand movements or a single touch: it's an art that needs to be built upon.

Learning the techniques of an erotic massage can also help people in overcoming the dissatisfaction that creeps in to many sexual relationships and hangs over like a shadow into their personal and professional lives as it leaves individuals feeling discontented and disenchanted with a segment of their lives that should be open to experimenting and excitement.

Besides bringing in a certain lost charm about their own sexuality, an erotic massage can help a person practice touches on themselves without the need for telling a partner how and where to touch for how long and re-connect with their bodily needs at their own leisure, for their own pleasure! It is recommended for both men and women with strong needs and desires and all that is called for is creating the right ambiance and having an open mind to enjoying the beauty of the human body.

An erotic massage given right and accepted in the right mind can lead to a foreign thrill that is orgasmic in the joy it provides besides helping one relax independently, or with a partner (should one choose to share the knowledge). One doesn't even need an external stimulator for performing an erotic massage and it is as pleasurable in giving one as receiving one - so try it today!

A flat, firm surface is needed for performing an erotic massage and touches need to be intimate, warm and sensual to build up to a crescendo within the individual's body and bring about utter peace and ultimate relaxation from the session. When concentrating on the person's sexual points, it is advisable to keep the tempo going and steady at a plateau of feelings before letting them experience the high of the ultimate arousal.

Men like being spoken to during the erotic massage but many may react just as well to non-verbal strokes to bring them to ejaculate while women are more given towards receiving erotic massage when it concentrates on their G-Spot (also known as the clitoral massage), which if done properly, can bring them to multiple orgasms.

An erotic massage can be performed for opposite sex or same-sex partners and be equally stimulating in either case but remember, there is little room for selfishness and wanting to satisfy your own urges when conducting an erotic massage - so, learn to give pleasure in order to be the best lover you can be!

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